Yes, people still have sex on planes. But they take things to another level

A little quiz about the state of air sex today.

As a child, I often heard about the ” Mile High Club “, this select club of daredevils who had sex on an airplane. I thought it was a concept that would have more clarity and importance as I matured, but as I grew older it fell into the same category as quicksand or the Bermuda Triangle, things that fascinate you when you’re young and become totally irrelevant when you’re older. maturity.

Does anyone still have sex on planes these days? Is it really that much fun to squeeze into a crappy bathroom that’s too small for even one person? Well, according to several air travelers and flight attendants, that tradition is still alive. It may be rare for someone to have classic penetrative sex on a plane, but people still do at least manual labor.

It’s obvious why anyone wouldn’t want to have sex on a plane. First of all, it’s very impractical. Airplane bathrooms are dirty and small, and there are always lines if you stay too long. But some are excited by these factors. The risk, the mess, the fact that they are at a great height, all these can make the experience even more erotic. In first class, the bathroom is a little bigger, alcohol is served for free, so the chances of sex increase. 

Reddit is full of airplane sex stories Some people claim that they didn’t even go to the bathroom, but pulled it on their chair. Other stories are clearly fiction – they are written by men who claim to have brought their girlfriend to a great orgasm, or even been congratulated by the flight staff. But the most plausible stories come from flight attendants, who say they’ve often caught people doing oral or manual sex.

“During a flight with an almost empty plane, there was a couple in the back clearly having sex. She had her head under a blanket in his lap and was sucking him, while he concentrated on keeping his eyes closed and not making a sound,” writes a flight attendant. On a similar thread , another flight attendant says she saw two gentlemen “paw each other under one of those blankets we give to passengers on airplanes.” Both stories ended pretty much the same: passengers tried to give the blankets to the staff at the end of the flight or put them in the trash. Another passenger said that once his girlfriend rubbed and ejaculated on the blanket, but then he had the good sense to take her with him, not leave her on the plane.

To find out more, I asked people on Twitter to tell me their airplane sex stories. Most involved the hands.

“I don’t know if it comes up, but when I was in my twenties, I was on a flight from Miami to Bulgaria with my girlfriend, and after a few drinks we got drunk and high. I fingered her under the blanket until she had an orgasm. She didn’t manage to paw me because we were afraid it was too visible, so we left her alone,” one guy wrote to me.

Usually it all starts with a few glasses of alcohol. “I travel a lot for work with my fiance, but flying is extremely stressful for me,” said one woman. “That’s why I choose to get drunk every time I fly, and that turns me on.” As a result, she gives her fiance a handjob under the blanket. Sometimes even oral sex in the bathroom. “But before

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Is it worth ending a relationship just because sex sucks?

Sex can’t always be perfect.

For centuries, people have placed great importance on sex. It’s everywhere: on TV, in songs , in clothes, in language, in culture – and everyone tells you that you’re not doing it right if you don’t feel great every time you have sex.

Well, we think sex isn’t always so exciting. Oftentimes, it can be shy, awkward, and uncomfortable. Maybe you’re a little bored, or maybe one of your partners has a problem with their libido or is afraid to try something new.

But is it worth ending a relationship just because the sexual chemistry with the partner is not perfect?

It’s true that a relationship works if you’re both on the same page, otherwise it creates tension. It’s frustrating when one of you always initiates sex and gets rejected every time. It creates an insecurity about intimacy for both partners.

The answer is simple, therefore: Yes, sex is reason enough to end a relationship. Any reason is enough, because we all deserve to be happy and fulfilled in our relationships. It’s perfectly okay to end a relationship with a partner if you feel hurt or unhappy. But it’s important to communicate beforehand.

Any relationship requires communication, and the sexual plan is as important as all the other plans you discuss, such as passions, finances or career.

Here are some key points you should touch on to find out if there is any hope of repairing your relationship sexually

Why is sex bad?

It’s good to start here. What is the problem? The way the sex goes? Frequency of sexual acts? Lack of attraction? Chemistry? Routine? Sometimes, after the passion wears off, sex feels like an obligation.

It is important to determine whether the problems in your sex life are physical or emotional in nature.

How important is sex to each of you?

All people are different. If you both prefer to watch TV shows instead of having sex, that’s great. But if it doesn’t work for both of you, you need to talk.

If one of you wants to have sex three times a week, and the other doesn’t mind if you don’t have sex for weeks or months at a time, then maybe decide to stay friends or open up the relationship so you’re not relying on each other to fulfill your sexual needs.

What do you want more/less of?

Sex is like anything else – you can learn new things and improve your abilities. Just because you’re not having great sex right now doesn’t mean it can’t become great if you put in the effort. Be honest about your likes and dislikes in bed.

Try something new, listen to each other, change your habits, don’t be arrogant and see if anything changes.

Does it feel like you’re putting in equal effort?

Sometimes, even if the sex is okay, there are tensions about who initiates the sex and how often. If only one partner always initiates sex, they end up feeling embarrassed or unwanted, even if they achieve their goal and end up having sex.

It’s important to decide if you’re both happy on this plan, so that only one of you doesn’t feel like he’s doing all the work.

Do you have unrealistic expectations?

Porn has created some totally unrealistic expectations about sex. Remember that not everyone wants to explore extreme sexual preferences. Some people want kisses and cuddles, and that’s totally fine. Sex isn’t better just because it’s kinky, nor is it boring just because it’s vanilla.

Is sex a priority in the relationship?

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